It’s a common conception that most threesomes are suggested by males. This is because in most instances, it is the guy who has the desire for sex with multiple partners. However, if your girlfriend is the one who is suggesting a threesome, you have got work cut for you.
If you are the one who is initiating the idea of a threesome, here are some surefire ways to persuade your girlfriend into agreeing to participate in group sex.
Naturally, a woman worries about anyone which threatens the relationship between her boyfriend and herself. Therefore, it is understandable that she feels insecure about threesomes because of this particular reason.
To overcome your girlfriend’s objection to threesomes, it is imperative that you overcome her insecurity. Following are three easy ways to boost her confidence –
1. Never, ever hit on her friends. You will never pull a threesome if she thinks that it’s just an excuse to sleep with her friends.
2. Avoid criticism. No negative remarks.
3. Regularly affirm your love for her. Compliments and gifts would work wonders, only if given sparingly and appropriately.
In short, before even mentioning the idea of threesomes to her, make sure that she’s confident that threesomes won’t affect her relationship with you in any way.
Once you have passed the ‘insecurity barrier’, start planting the idea of threesomes in her head. Easy ways to do this is –
1. Rent sexy movies with group action and at appropriate times, casually mention to her how she would feel if she participates in a threesome.
2. Say that you’d like to share her with another woman and see how she reacts.
3. When she warms up with the idea of a threesome and she asks you who the other person is, say that it would be up to her to choose.
To summarize, in order to get your woman to say ‘yes’ to a threesome, first overcome her insecurities, and then subtly plant the idea in her head. You will be pulling threesomes in no time at all.
